Monday, June 17, 2013

The Bad Guy (Girl)

Sometimes it is inevitable that friendships/relationships will come to end. Often we hear about the drama, but I would like to discuss another sly hurtful way that some choose to end relationships.... Although rare, there are some people that are mature and sophisticated, and wish to go separate ways without all the drama. Perhaps they honestly state their reasons, ask for forgiveness and hope to move forward with both parties in consensus.... However when one of those parties can't handle the "break-up" they go into the bad/girl guy mode.. in which they wish to villianize the person that they are ending realtionship with. I can't tell you how many times people have tried to tear my character down, just to make themselves more at ease with the ending of our friendship. Nothing makes me more upset than false accusations.. I am not a perfect woman, but I do subscribe to honesty. Even if circumstances are ugly.. I will not shy from them. Which makes it all the more angering when someone makes up their own false reasoning about why you are not who you say you are. I share this as to say..... sometimes relationships run their course... it may not even be the desire or the intention of those involved for it to happen, but learn to be respectful. If you ever loved or cared about someone; discrediting them.. to make yourself feel better is childish & unfair.... Be mature and understand that time and chance happens to everyone and perhaps the conclusion of this relationship is all part of God's mysterious plan for your victory........
~ That is all

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